Embracing Transformation: Moving Forward in a Changing Reality

We can’t go back to who we were, and neither can reality. So who do we want to be?

Greetings,

And so, we begin. Another meeting on this path, through this medium, to say a few words about who you are becoming; about this reality in which you find yourselves, which in many ways is unlike anything you have known. These are the external events that are painful, tumultuous, and different from ordinary days, as well as the events occurring in your inner emotional world. Emotions, thoughts, and desires are intensifying. Some are awakening for the first time, some are reappearing, and some have always been present but are increasing in intensity. Inside and out, reality is changing, and you are not as you once were.

We wish to remind you that you will not return to who you once were either. This is change, and within change, you are evolving. Nevertheless, some people wish to return to the past. In the name of wanting to return to the past, some go to war. This can be a literal war, like the one you are experiencing. It can also be a personal war, within yourself. In the name of wanting to return to the past, some resist changes and sometimes even resist good things that are happening. There is a general sense of victimhood when reality changes, when things do not unfold as you planned or wanted. Indeed.

We remind you again that reality is changing and you are changing, and you cannot return to how things once were. Reality will not return to what it was, but that doesn’t mean that what is happening now will remain forever. However, what happens in the future will be different from what was in the past. That is why we return time after time, especially during this period, encouraging you to reexamine what you want for yourselves.

What changes do you want to create? Even if what you want is to return to the past, we suggest you continue asking the question, as the desire to return to the past cannot be fulfilled. Other desires, which are more attainable, certainly can be. Desires for self-realization, expression, opening doors that were closed, and creating changes that have been brewing and waiting for the right time—these can happen.

Reality will not return to what it was, and there is no need for it to. However, you do have healing to do, certainly. There is security to rebuild, and relationships to restore. There is a return to life to be made.

Your daily life is changing significantly, and it needs to change and stabilize. You will not return to who you once were, but who you become can be a pleasant surprise if you agree to change, not just from a place of victimhood but also from understanding and surrender.

The more you ask yourselves what you want, the more the changes occurring can reflect your desires rather than reinforce the experience that you are being swept along by a reality you don’t want, but one that is unfolding for your benefit.

We say this even when parts of reality are painful, and things aren’t always good for you in what’s happening. Despite this, and with this, we deliver what we deliver: it will be different and it can be good—even if it doesn’t seem possible at all.

These are our words for this time.

With pleasure,

Farewell.

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