Channeling on Needs and Responsibility

As we face people who do not take responsibility, we are called to embody ourselves what we expect others to do

Greetings.

So, we begin. We meet this time to remind you, human beings, to give yourselves what you need.

You live in a reality where many of those who are supposed to give you what you need do not act according to their responsibility. These may be parents, partners, or even governments and people in positions of power.

At times, your expectations of these people are legitimate and reasonable. Indeed, they had a responsibility, and they did not act in accordance with it. Yet sometimes, you expect from others something they are neither meant nor able to give. Either way, when this is the reality, a choice stands before you – whether to keep struggling, to keep fighting, or to turn your attention inward and re-examine what you need and how you can provide it for yourself.

If you choose to make this movement back to yourself, remember that it does not necessarily mean you must meet all your needs alone. It is perfectly fine to ask for help. But if your request has turned into a battle, that is often a sign that you need to look again at what you must give yourself – for many times, what you ask of others is something they cannot give. Often you are asking for something that you are meant to learn to give yourself – whether through your own strength or with the support of others who are not the usual ones you tend to rely on.

What do you need, each of you, for yourselves? Return to this truth. Connect to it. Feel it. And act accordingly.

These are our words for now.

With pleasure,
Farewell.

Tohar.

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