What do you do when a romantic relationship ends, but you continue to miss that person even long after it’s over?
If I had received this answer from Tohar during that time in my life, when I was still longing, perhaps moving forward would have been easier.
Here are their words, an answer to a question I responded to in a written channeling:
“It is possible to allow the longing to exist, without stressing over its presence or trying to make it disappear. It is not truly a problem if you suddenly find yourself longing, because there was a certain quality you desire again – only in a different form; and even if, on the surface, the longing appears to be for the same form, for the same person, it is actually a specific quality you want – not necessarily the person.
“Therefore, it is worth exploring with yourself, with the part of you that is longing, what quality you want to experience again. This way, you’ll understand what you’re taking forward from that relationship, what you wish to manifest again – in a new person, in a new relationship. By doing this, you can receive the message from the part of you that is longing and remain open to this quality in a new form”.
