In the channeling session held on January 1st, marking the beginning of the Year of Choice, Tohar offered a deep explanation of the four components of our processes of growth and manifestation. They addressed the emotional challenges we face along the way and shared practical guidance on how to work with the choices we make.
This channeling serves as both a concise and expansive guide, continuing the insights they provided eight years ago, under the title “Being the Owner”.
Here is an excerpt from the channeling:
“Between the choice and its realization lies something we can describe as an abyss. Imagine you want something specific for yourself, something you don’t currently have, something deeply important to you.
When you want something, the universe responds and begins to align in ways that enable you to manifest your desire. This is an important thing to remember in this process: the cooperation you receive is immense, and the assistance that comes is vast. But at a certain point, as you walk the path, you will encounter the abyss.
Your challenge is to agree to leap into the abyss. This challenge is significant, and when faced with it, it’s important to pause, deepen your understanding, and learn.
What is this abyss? It is the state you find yourself in when you make a choice and then release it. You declare what you want, and then you let go of it. You don’t cling to it obsessively; you don’t keep holding it in your space – you let go.
Letting go is crucial because, through release, you begin to move.
The way things align for your choice to manifest is neither visible nor clear to you. For this process to unfold in the most elegant way, you must let go—let go of the timing you believe is necessary, let go of the scope you imagine is required. You must release the ways in which the choice will manifest: perhaps it will involve different people or places than you expected. Your choice will manifest, but it may do so differently than you envision. Therefore, your choice must focus on the essence of your desire, not its outer form.
For instance, you may choose to create a relationship. However, if your choice is to create that relationship with a specific person within a specific timeframe, the cooperation you receive will be far more limited. The choice must reside in the essence. How? With whom? When? At what pace? Where? That will remain a mystery. You must release the plan.
We know that what we are saying may contradict much of what you are taught – goal-setting, planning, creating vision boards, and so on. Nevertheless, we continue to say this: you must let go”.
