Greetings,
Thus, we begin another meeting in this manner, through this medium, to share a few words. We wish to address, at this time, the way in which you support yourselves. When do you abandon yourselves? In what situations?
Generally speaking, we would say that self-abandonment occurs when you do not meet the criteria, the standards you set for yourselves. There are conditions for support — if you meet them, there is support; if you do not, there is abandonment.
For those who are willing, we suggest paying attention to this phenomenon. Observe your relationship with yourselves — what are the conditions you impose upon yourselves? Is it possible that you are worthy of support even if you do not meet these conditions? Could it be that the problem lies in the conditions rather than in who you are?
Could it be that you are worthy of love despite everything? Despite not meeting the conditions, the criteria, or living and acting according to certain standards?
Even if this makes you different from others, distinct, perhaps even less good — do you continue to support yourselves? This is the question we ask.
In fact, we suggest that you examine when support ceases and discover whether you can strengthen it. To give yourselves more support, to treat yourselves in a new way, and to know that you stand by yourselves even if you are different from who you wish to be.
These are our words for this time.
With pleasure,
Farewell.
Tohar
